Yes, because that’s where it was supposed to be. You fool!
You can’t give an honest answer to a silly question, yes? So stop trying!
People like us who have a strong sense of judgment are sometimes taken as ‘overthinkers’ or ‘neurotic’. What you fail to understand is; this complex intelligence is actually payback for everything that we have been through in life.
One coincidence is a coincidence two are a clue and three are proof- Agatha Christie.
Life is a pattern of non-stop events, everything is somehow connected to the core (you). Let’s get real: I’ve lived out of the chaos until it was clear, I have a better hold of things now because I messed up last time; I know how to fight back because that’s all life has taught me, individuals like us, surviving since the start, who fought more battles, we know shit better than you, we can see how reality shatters before our eyes, and We can see it all coming because our brain’s patterns differ from yours, my memory muscles are equipped to correlate, I can connect the dots more precisely.
Stop questioning our intentions, don’t get threatened by our intellect, do not misread our conflicts, and please do not take them for granted. Use it for your own good and leave us the hell alone.
So, whenever you ask for a suggestion and someone puts a thought in front of you from a different angle that challenges your regular thought process- Give it a chance, listen, and try to rethink your scenario to get a perspective, their little suggestion might work, and their obsessed behavior and intense response may save you from trouble, do not call it crazy’ because I don’t want life to teach you the same lessons, the hard way. The people who take their time, listen to your problems, and then calmly present you with cruel but realistic arguments are the ones you need by your side.
I am not an ‘overthinker’ or ‘manipulator’; I am just very very cautious of life because I have been there on the other side and it’s ugly- I want to save you!
HELP YOURSELF!