“Some people are great at giving you just enough hope to hang onto absolutely nothing.”
They were supposed to hurt you, and you were supposed to sit in your pain for a while, not because you deserved the punishment or anything but because it’s the only way you can shake the old version of yourself. You needed that to wake you up!
Open up your eyes, clear your head, and stay attentive to what you are receiving. If it does not fulfill your criteria, get out of it. Relationships should not work like parasites you know what parasites do? they eat their host, they will eat you to death and you cannot blame them, because their way of survival is natural. They don’t know what they’re doing wrong; they don’t have a code of life; they don’t live by principle, this tiny little inhumane creature called a parasite; it lives on by bringing your death, and when the one prey is finally gone; they move on, pick a new target and they keep on eating it until the end of time.
So my friend, always have an exit clause in mind, when you are dealing with such people (it could be your family, friends, or lover – anything). We humans who call ourselves ‘the greatest’ possess all the horrible capacities that make us devils.
Nobody can claim authority over you, they cannot have-you-all, nobody can ruin your life, and no one has the power to change your personality so it can fit their parameters. Your way of giving is bringing your fall, I BEG you to stop, take your hand and shake it off. GIVE UP, you draw yourself out of the equation immediately, and save your petty self!
Doing this is hard? Yeah, it’s painful, and it will crush your soul drastically, you need time to come back, maybe a long, long time, but you keep on living, believe me, no one ever dies for love or due to the lack of it, Life is not a movie, we are all here surviving tired, pathetic, but alive, trying to make our way out of this pain.
And once you do it; Let them think they have it better, let them play the blame game, do not wait and answer their summons, do not stand there with them for one extra moment, do not reconsider; the minute this universe offers you that ‘moment of realization’ and you see how you’re drowning because of that one person while maintaining that unhealthy, broken, deceitful, fake relationship.
Put the clause in motion, GET OUT- They don’t care about you, anyway!
