Where do i run to when home is no longer a home?
They say you can never escape your family, right?!
Have you always wanted to know how good your parents were? okay then, have a look at your life and tell me what are you? where are you now? If you have a good life, Your life is a reflection of your parent’s goodness. If you’re having a bad life, Uh-oh i don’t wanna tell you that your parents maybe weren’t the best breed.
You are attracting what your parents have worked for you, hard to swallow! Give it time!
Let me show you a simple trick; if you had good parents, life is much easier for you. If your DNA is shaped by individuals driven by narcissism, manipulation, and deception, then this existence becomes a perilous journey – behold!
You know when they say it’s in the blood, i used to hate this sentence, never believed it. I was always the one to comeback at them by saying hey, people can still turn out different and good, it’s all in my hand to switch myself into a good person like a quick magic trick. I think it was the most overly stated or exaggerated concept. Hard to admit that I was living in my head, It was easier to say and to believe that false reality until i was presented with an ironclad evidence to believe this extremist, hateful, rhetoric dialogue is indeed the law of the universe. I was enlightened to a breakthrough that made me realize oh shit, the statement is significantly correct; people show you where they come from, DNA never runs out of the line, Kids are the remarkable reflection of what their ancestors have sowed.
Parents hating on you, sibling alienating on each other, crying, bitching about relationships, and wishing the worst to each other, making it look like everything is good on the outside – making a fool out of yourself. Gaslighting is; when a person tries to control others, by twisting their sense of reality. Don’t tell me you’re new to this. If you haven’t been a victim of it, count yourself the luckiest. If you have, hey this is for you! Kids who grew up in these homes didn’t turn out to be the best you know. They are doomed, they do not even realize the damage done because of their ill-fate, they will die calculating how to get out of this bad bloodline and clean themselves and I am certain they never will find a way!
You are answerable for your own doing. Yes, I understand that, but It’s going to take you a long time to break those ties, because my love blood is indeed thicker than water. It would never leave you in peace if you belong to a bad blood. Do you think it’s easy? coming to a relization that your family is toxic? believing that if i do not deviate the way I would end up same, fearing that you don’t wanna bring your children into this cruel world, getting scared of future relationships and ruining your own happiness? Feeling like you are at fault? blaming yourself for everything that happens around you? Carrying an uninvited guilt that will never leave your soul?
You life has become a blessing only with two options, One; because your parents were good human beings, Two; Your parents were at least sincere to their kids. There is no third way!
God doesn’t spare ease until you qualify!