The air felt lighter today, the moving pieces of a puzzle while I ran towards my home. Home, is it? The view became whole when I ran to it, and blurs out when I run away, right? Is it still my home a hundred years away from me? The timeline is important in this context? A home is not a place, it’s within you. Am I home in a park? or a museum? Crazy! Maybe it’s someone else’s past home!
A friend of mine once told me: that I became what I had to become before I met her. Do you know how peaceful this is? You don’t reach your destination until you become who you were supposed to be. The universe before handing you your next win will ask: are you ready? Take a moment to answer that question, don’t desperately say yes. Lean into it and actually evaluate. Are You?
Show me a happy loser and I’ll show you a loser.! They say!
I have a counter to that, “Show me a happy ‘loser,’ and I’ll show you someone who’s learned, grown, and is ready to win big next time.” I will show you a broken yet dignified human being. The broken ones; talk to the broken ones, they will show you what is real_ how to live alone_How to finish and how to start all over again. And if in an eternity, life ever gives you a chance to become that broken person. Don’t laugh in the face of adversity. Just smile, nod along, and take that honor. You have been served!
Calculate the damage of your latest failure and multiply it with an integer 2x,3x,4x of your choice. Right there, that’s what happens when you lose with dignity. The universe is so arrogant, that it cannot stand us human beings in our super element: “When we face loss in life but don’t lose our composure.” It gets really mad.
Vengence in my heart, death in my hand, a smile on my face, and the car keys in my pocket ——-handed over to the next of kin. This event of death is just another con!
