“Everything that kills me, makes me feel alive”
Damaged People are dangerous, they know they can survive.
How to align your neurotransmitters to handle active pain when a piece of bad news is dropped at you in the middle of the night, while you’re partying with your friends, or you were just falling asleep? Or maybe reading a book? Playing with a kid? Or worst of all – driving? How do grown-ups behave? or the more important question, how should we behave? Stop being reactive! Listen, stay quiet, absorb, and reflect back! You will see the game changing – breaking is too harsh for me, you just have to bend the rules. So here is the deal, you get to hear a bad news, it’s okay to have that momentary lapse’, where you dissociate yourself from reality for a while and then come back to your senses in a matter of time. That’s how you process; You stand still, alone, in darkness, with tears, a heavy heart, chaos in your mind, maybe shivering hands or trembling lips and flaming eyes. Alone – carrying all the power to deal with this reality, you do not create the drama and you do not look for sympathy; you stop acting like a child – Welcome to the real world!
Whenever in life, you come across a failure, and to me failure is defined as: anything from a ‘bad hair day’ to ‘choosing a horrible life partner’. Karma is there working in the universe, but it does not work on your schedule. So be ready; to take the pain, to keep living, to not make a mess of yourself. The people who do you wrong would be happy to see you fail, don’t give them enough power to make you more miserable than you already are.
That’s the rule; there is no rule. God doesn’t take your command, life doesn’t work your way, the future is not in your hand, control is an illusion, don’t get blindsided by your lack of approach, don’t let reality hit you more than once, keep your armor on and start taking things as they are.
You cannot pray away conflict. It’s okay to think about killing yourself, it’s okay to cry, it’s okay to relive the embarrassing moments, it’s okay to try your best in relationships and still lose, It’s okay to think about the worst possible outcomes, it’s okay to think your life is done, it’s okay to think I HAVE LOST because yes, sometimes in life, We LOSE- but failures do not define you – it’s not okay to get lost, to give up, or to stop trying. Realign your focus, sit with your pain, cry away the harsh realities, and then come back at life, stop sugarcoating everything, stop manifesting in the wrong direction, and stop doing what you have been doing earlier, Learn the Lesson – Loud and Clear!
If you follow the rule, I don’t promise you a lifetime success, but I can assure you one thing: you will have your integrity intact by the end of time. And when the pieces of life come together in a bigger picture, you will be the last one standing.
